Guilty pleasures...and a comp!

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Our trip to Europe is drawing to a close, and it's a sad, sad thing. We have just returned to Florence from Rome (our second trip), collecting Chris's mum who is staying with us for our last two weeks. Once again, Rome blew me away. So full of history, so bright and colorful, so alive.

A lot of people say it's polluted and dirty, but I just don't get that point of view. To me, it's a great, spectacle-filled city, and I want to go back and explore it at more length one day. This time around, we did lots of walking (as always!) and the highlight of my trip was seeing the Pantheon. This is the best-preserved Roman building in Rome, re-built in 112 AD (or close to)after a fire burnt down the original. It's huge, beautifully classical in design, and the inside of the huge masonry dome (a marvel of the world at the time, and also the inspiration for the huge dome on Florence's cathedral, built some 1500 years or so later) is amazing - layers of three dimensional squares sinking into the curved surface of the dome. I am sure there is a complicated architectural term for this effect, but I don't know it - I just think it's amazing. There's a huge opening in the very top centre of the roof (they call it an ocular I think) that allows light and the weather in. The floor beneath it has thousands of tiny gaps in it to allow the rainwater to drain away. How amazing were the Romans, eh? Such clever, clever people, and they took such pleasure in building beautiful, stunning structures - the people who pour concrete these days could take some lessons.

I fell in love more than once in Rome. First, with the city itself, then with the Pantheon (having already given my heart to the Collesseum on my previous trip), and lastly with a fabulous handbag displayed temptingly in a shop window. Chocolate brown, a little on the large size, with a vine-type pattern stamped into the leather. It's GORGEOUS. And as soon as I saw it I knew it had to come home to Australia with me.

I am very ashamed to say that buying beautiful things gives me great pleasure. I know there are better things to do with my time and money, but I guess I'm just a hedonist at heart. Also, I worked like a dog all of 2007, with many a thumb-in-mouth, rocking-in-corner moment during stressful times to show for it. So every time I indulge myself, I remind myself that I have worked hard, and that I continue to work hard despite being in this amazing place(today's word count - 4000. New book to be delivered before Christmas, and TV script due next Monday!!)

Which all brings me to my question for this week's blog, and this week's comp. What are your guilty pleasures, and how do they make you feel better? Everyone who contributes to the discussion will be in the running to win a set of Daytime Diva's Blaze books - that's Take On Me, All Over You, and Hot For Him, or, if you have them already, my other three backlist books, Can't Get Enough, Cruise Control and Anything For You. Remember, you need to be a member at Cigars to qualify, but that's all. Over to you, Cigar lovers - what's your favourite indulgence? What treats do you allow yourself to reward effort and salve pain? (PS. As usual, I've added some piccies in a separate blog for those who are interested.)

"When In Rome..."

Hi Sarah,
Glad you had a good time in Europe. I've been to Rome and I saw so many beautiful things. Did you throw a coin in the Trevi Fountain? I got a giggle out if this: "handbag displayed temptingly in a shop window" 'cause the same happened to me but it was leopard print shoes. Cute little lace up flats. Man I miss them...
One of my guilty pleasures is OK magazine. I like to read about other people's problems and not think about my own for a while. Even if it's made up...
Have a safe trip back to Australia and good luck with the book and the TV script.

MelissaK

trevi wishing

yes, threw my 10 centimes in the fountain, over the shoulder for luck. While I was down there (standing as close to the edge as possible due to poor hand-eye co-ordination skills and fear of missing fountain)someone else's coin bounced at my feet. A teen girl next to me had tossed it over her shoulder and missed. Go figure. Even I got it in first shot! I gave her her coin back, and she tried again - with a rather large audience second time around, due to the attention her missed attempt garnered. Glad you understand about the bag. RIP your leopard skin flats. It's sad when favourite shoes go to shoe heaven, isn't it?

Re: trevi missing

lol! T-shirts and shoes, Sarah. I've worn out some great band t-shirts. I, too, threw in a coin but have not been back. What's up with that?

MelissaK

Chocolate, ice cream, and a good book...

Those are at the top of my list of favorite indulgences, and sometimes I don't even feel guilty about them! ;)

And although I do enjoy shoes and bags, I'm not much of a shopper, so it's less of an indulgence as a chore to hunt them down ;)

And please don't include me in your drawing since I now actually have your six backlist books--good luck, everyone! They are SOoooo good!

Ice cream!

how I love ice cream! All the gelati here in Italy is wonderful. Tonight,tried Crema di Groma, which was a yummy vanilla kind of base with crunchy biscuits (cookies to you Americans!)mixed through it. Not the same as cookies and cream, let me assure you - much,much better. Yum. And ta for the nice rap, Fedora. If I do pick you, I have some advance copies of Island Heat waiting for me back in Melbourne, so we will see what we can do...

That sounds completely yummy!

Crema di Groma... boy--way to create cravings for something I can't have here, Sarah! ;) I wonder how they keep the biscuits crunchy? Mmm... *drifting off towards the kitchen*

Secret Guilty Pleasures

Hi Sarah,

Rome sounds wonderful. Someday I hope to go. Guilty pleasures are my favorite pleasures. I’ve come to understand that I feel guilty way too often for things I shouldn’t be denying myself—like down time—so my guilty pleasures are becoming just plain pleasures.

But then there are secret guilty pleasures—the ones you’re afraid to admit. Mine? Watching Ricky Martin dance. Watching David Lee Roth strutting his stuff (Hmmm—bit of an ’80-‘90’s theme here). Enjoying the Achy Breaky Heart song in spite of having heard it ninety zillion times. Admitting that I’m still a Monkees fan (and I think they had talent).

There are more, but you know? I’m not ready to admit them just yet.

Have a great one—
Jeannie

Men in lycra

I'm a big David Lee Roth fan myself,and I'm not ashamed to admit it. Jump is all out one of the best film-clips/big hair songs ever. And all because of David. And I like the Monkees. I can still remember watching them when I was a kid. Sigh. As for your deeper, darker secrets...well, we all have those, eh?

Men in lycra

Every time Jump comes on the TV (while I'm supposedly in my lair writing) I toss the laptop aside and race for the TV room--I have to see those jumps. Very few men can dress straight of of Fredericks of Hollywood and look so full of testosterone while doing it, lol.

Indulgences

Sarah, Your trip sounds wonderful and I think it's great that you have a beautiful handbag to remind you of it. I love to go shopping too and books are my favorite indulgence although clothes, shoes, and chocolate are also great fun to shop for.

books! Bliss!

I can't wait to be back home where it's easier and cheaper to find something to read. I've done okay, so far, thanks to the Paperback Exchange bookshop here in Florence, but the range is pretty slim. And I've had a few authors added to my "check this out" list lately, so am gagging to get access to a Borders. And yes, my handbag will a great reminder of Rome. I swanned about Florence with it today. I swear every woman I passed was green with envy. Well, in my imagination, anyway...

Ah, so many...

I live life as one big guilty pleasure sometimes, I think. ;) Too many to list. I like to buy nice things as well, but also many foods are guilty pleasures, and you know, when I think about it, maybe without even that much guilt, LOL. Sorry to hear your travels are coming to an end, it seems quick, even to us! We want you to travel more and bring us new adventures, however, remember that home to you is exotic to most of us, so you can post things from there, too! ;)

Sam

Guilt from the land that invented it

Seeing all the Catholic iconography over here in Italy is like taking a speed-reading course on guilt. So much pain, sin and suffering, so much repentance. Eating too much chocolate doesn't really hold up against most of the big sins depicted, so I'm feeling kind of reassured on the guilt front, actually. And I'm more than happy to travel more, if only to amuse you all. In fact, it would be my pleasure!!!

My Guilty Pleasures!

First of all, it sounds as if you had a wonderful trip and it is sad when you have to go back to the real world. I would love to go visit Rome one day!

As for my guilty pleasures, there are many. lol I would have to say my top three are, sexy books, scented items like candles, tarts, lotions etc., and PURSES, like you. In fact, I have my eye on one now on QVC and it's calling my name so bad, that I doubt I can hold out much longer. I've done pretty well for two days, which is not like me, but the temptation is great. Maybe if I eat more chocolate, I will forget. Oops, another guilty pleasure:0

temptation

Someone fabulous once said "I can resist everything except temptation". Should be my own personal theme song! I also like scented things too, Jibby. Soap is my particular fetish, but I am also very fond of scented sachets to put in with my linen and towels so that they smell all yummy when I go to use them. "Old Lady" smells like gardenia, jasmine, vanilla and rose are my choices in that department.

Hope the purse is beautiful!

Guilty peasures----a good

Guilty peasures----a good book and a bag of jelly beans!

Hee hee!

Jelly Beans! You know, they used to be the treat of choice when I was a kid. I don't like the purple ones, and I've grown to like the black ones, but the rest are fantastic. You've inspired me - I am going in search of Italian jelly beans today, if such creatures exist. Here's wishing you some in your near future!

I really need to go back to italy some time

I really need to go back to Italy some time. I am one of those that thinks of it as dirty and polluted but I was 18 when I went and it was my first time away from home and I had a different view of life. I think now I would see it a whole new way. Sadly my most prominent memory is being followed around by strange Italian men trying to talk to me..the only word I understood was Blond---they scared me to death.
I have many little pleasures but do I feel guilty about any of them????? I suppose mine would be having a couple hours to myself with a glass of wine a good spicy novel.

Kendra

Italian men...

You know, there are so many tourists over here now I think the Italian men are a little exhausted on the bum-pinching, street harrassment front. I really haven't seen much of it happening at all, and my friend who visited me over here went out on her own a few times (she's tall and blonde and young) and was very disappointed in the male attention factor. Maybe, like many things, Italian ardour has faded with time? And while I am sure Rome is even busier and noisier than you remember, it was such a great contrast to me coming from Florence, which is very closed in and medieaval. Rome has elegant buildings painted in ochre and rusty orange, and lots of greenery everywhere, and those amazing piazzas and ruins popping up out of the city. It's a bit of a pain to get around, compared to Paris with its wonderful, efficient, cheap metro, but it's got a lot of energy.

And I hear you on the wine front. Chianti is now my new wine of choice. Light, refreshing, very quaffable!

That, is why I think I need

That, is why I think I need to go back. I know the city has changed but I think my perspective 20 years later would be quite different as well. My mom went a couple years ago with her sisters and even just viewing her photos I saw the city differently than I had at 18.

guilty pleasures

I have so many things that bring me pleasure ~ I don't know why I let myself feel guilty about them

Books ~ and doing nothing all day but reading
My shoe obsession ~ even though I go barefoot as much as possible
Chocolate ~ I'm convinced it's a health food
Massages ~ again, good for my health and well-being

Separated at birth!

Christy, I think you might be my long lost twin! Add squishy, just-cooked doughnuts with yummy fillings into your list, and we're a perfect match. I am dreaming of getting a massage when we return to Australia. Have not dared attempt one here in Florence. Having had some "interesting" experiences with massage in Bali, I've decided not to tempt fate in that area any more...

Pantheon

I remember studying the Pantheon in art class and I recognize it because it has a hole at the top. That was definitely an architectural feat. I hope to see it in person someday. My guilty pleasure is make-up. I love make-up and buy a lot of it. I particularly like eye shadow and beauty tools like brushes and eyelash curlers.

eye lash curlers

you know, I have always wanted to try eyelash curlers. Do they really open the eye up more? And do you use them before or after attacking yourself with the mascara wand? Enquiring minds need to know!

As for the ocular in the Pantheon, it was pretty funny listening to people inside trying to work out if it was open to the elements or not. I mean, it's a pretty big hole, and there's a lot of fancy-pancy marble and gilt and whatnot in the interior. It seems inconcievable that they would leave it all exposed to weather via a big hole in the roof. But when you look up, the sky is so clearly visible, it also seems inconcievable that there could be glass up there. Just keeping it clean from pigeon poop would be a huge feat. We listened (and laughed) to these four Irish guys speculating about whether there was glass there or not. Lots of name calling and ribbing as they decried each other's theories. We had no clue, either, except I was certain that there was no glass - it was just too clear a view of the sky. My vague (and not very practical idea) was that maybe they put a cover over it at night time or if it rained. But on the way out I heard a woman reading a bit from her guide book out loud about the drainage system in the floor etc, and I remembered reading about it in my own guide book. D'oh!

eye lash curlers

You curl your lashes first and then apply mascara. They really do open the eye up. It might seem awkward at first, but you get the hang of using an eye lash curler pretty quickly. What's a little pain, when it's all for beauty.

Pain?

It hurts?! Aren't eye lashes dead? Or is it because it pulls sometimes? Am not sure if my devotion to beauty extends as far as undergoing self-inflicted pain. I can't even wax my legs...

i love junk food and yelling

i love junk food and yelling at the tv when i am wataching sports. adn yell at the game show.

yelling

I need to do more of this. Although I did a bit this evening, come to think of it. The only TV channel with any English shows on in it here in Italy is MTV, and they are showing this horrible thing called Not So Sweet Sixteen about spoilt little girls and their blow-out birthday parties for their 16ths. The attitudes on these horrible little minxes! I screeched at the TV several times, then had to leave the room to retain my sanity. Not quite the same as yelling at a football team, huh? Need to up my game...

guilty pleasures

A good book,alone time to read it and a nice long mineral salt bath are a few of my guilty pleasures

I love baths!

And I am so sick of buying/renting houses that don't have baths! What is it with these modern people who don't believe in soaking with a good book? Heathens, the lot of them.

Sooo many guilty pleasures...

But the biggies are steamy novels, candles that smell like men's Cool Water or Drakkar cologne (my friend makes them), and strawberry daiquiris. Oh, and "researching" pics of my heroes--I'm especially fond of the underwear models :). Any combination of the above once the kids and husband have gone to bed and I'm off to Fantasy Land. *sigh* Going to have to arrange a trip soon, I think...

how cool

Sophisticated scented candles. I could handle that. I love Bulgari Blue for men - that would make a very delicious candle. hmmm....

I agree

Drakkar is still a fave of mine. I know they have tons of new ones now, but that smells so sexy;)

guilty pleasures

My guilty pleasures are luxurious bath products and lotions.

Soap!

My whole family laughs over my obsession with soap. Every year for Christmas and Birthday they ask what I want and I think for a while and say "some nice soap would be good." Fruity, creamy, whatever - a good soap is a beautiful thing!

I have lots of guilty

I have lots of guilty pleasures...I am quite indulgent at times however chocolate & a glass of good Port seem to be very satisfying at the present.

mulled wine

I have discovered mulled wine over here in Europe. Yum. Hot red wine with an orange slice,sugar and spices. Delish!